Author Lisa Sussman, with over 30 titles under her belt, helps you explore your own submissive or dominate nature – whether you like to give pain or receive it, this book offers exciting ways to explore the world of sadomasochism.  Here you'll learn the basics and more, from how to get started and safety advice to imaginative ideas that range from role play to bondage. Whether your urge is to be mistress or pupil, strapped to the bed or holding the cane, there's something here to bring a jolt of electricity to your love life.